Adultery hurts both spouses in the marriage.
The breaking of trust, shame cycle, and massive conflict drives 60% of couples to divorce after an episode of infidelity.
This course is for the couples who want to join the 40% who successfully recover and move on with their lives. Marriage After Cheating is designed for BOTH spouses to go through simultaneously to help them work through the issues which caused the cheating.
By supporting both spouses, your marriage becomes balanced and the two of you can work together towards making things right.
This course is comprehensive, and requires both parties to work on their marriage everyday, through the up's and down's.
Which is why Marriage After Cheating comes in 2 parts, and has a support group for each member.
Part 1 is for the betrayer. Part 2 is for the betrayed. Each part is important.
I'll see you inside,
Nick Matiash
7+ hours of content, Support Group for both Men & Women, and actionable steps to heal your marriage.
Module 1
The 4 reasons why men cheat, and what causes them to act on it.
What adultery does to YOUR psyche and how it destroys you as well.
Is Infidelity a mistake or a choice?
The spectrum of adultery & realistic healing times.
The extent of the damage adultery causes to your marriage.
Module 2
By understanding what she's going through, you can help her resolve her feelings and start the healing process.
Adultery often causes PTSD & complex trauma.
When she discovers you've cheated, her brain physically changes.
Women think about your acts of cheating on an average of every 3 minutes.
Module 3
If you can be the person she turns to in times of stress, you'll begin to fulfill your role as the healer of your marriage.
Discover the techniques you need to help her in trigger moments.
Find out how to get through rough patches and keep the ball moving forward instead of being stuck in a cycle.
Here's the best way to develop a support system for your wife OUTSIDE of just you.
Module 4
She knows. Here's what you can expect to surrender to her (and why it helps the healing process)
Honesty is the best policy, BUT...
How to disclose details of the affair in a way that SUPPORTS healing instead of DESTROYS it.
Module 5
You are the villain of this story. Accept it, then shift the narrative.
She needs to witness the change in you. Your promises mean nothing.
Stop waiting for her to applaud your progress. Make this evolution about YOU.
Take responsibility. You can't redeem yourself otherwise.
Module 6
Did you stop cheating yet? If you haven't start there.
The slow rot of trickle truth.
The 4 words you NEVER want to say if you want to stay married after you've cheated.
The absence of bad behavior isn't equal to the presence of good behavior.
The ONE thing you can do when she is upset that will ensure your path to divorce court. (And here's what to do instead.)
Module 7
The first 6 months post D-Day
Two goals to focus on as you and your wife process the infidelity
Chaos is certain. Therefore, structure is needed.
She CAN forgive. She will NEVER forget.
She hired a divorce lawyer...now what? (hint: don't throw in the towel)
Live Support
A group of men like you, committed to making the most of a bad situation.
LIVE Q+A sessions weekly with Nick
An active community where you can ask questions, be vulnerable, and do your best to figure things out.
An opportunity to learn and grow without judgment (because you need it after becoming the black sheep of your family, friend group, and community due to what's happened)
Learn How Your Cheating Changes Her Biochemistry (and why that will affect your dynamic)
Learning to Grow Without the Expectation of Applause
Shifting Your Identity From the Villain to the Hero
7+ hours of content, Support Group for both Men & Women, and actionable steps to heal your marriage.
Module 1
He's responsible for 90% of the healing or more. But not 100%.
Forgive and forget? Not likely.
Are you willing to endure the path forward? Is it worth it to you?
Module 2
The top reasons men cheat (and why the specifics matter more for him than they do you)
He's never going to give you an answer that satisfies you.
Letting go of 'why' he did it, accepting 'that' he did it, and moving forward with intention.
Module 3
Self-Reflection vs. Self-Loathing
Your old marriage is dead and gone, what do you want this next chapter to look like?
He made the ultimate choice to cheat. What happened prior to that that could have been prevented?
Module 4
Your feelings are valid. Don't be afraid to speak up.
You will be triggered. But you don't have to let it stop the marriage's progress.
The marriage heals as you heal. This is your timeline.
Live Support
A community of women similarly grappling with the earth shaking experience of infidelity. A place to lean on each other and grow together.
A weekly LIVE Q+A session with one of our Evolved Man team members to help you navigate the difficulties of your circumstance.
An exclusive group platform where you can ask questions, be vulnerable, and learn to make peace with your situation.
Tuning Out the Judgment of Others
Assessing Your Own Areas of Growth for the Next Chapter
Bonus #1
The science on porn: how it negatively affects your brain AND body
Is porn a dealbreaker for your wife? The importance of knowing BEFORE you consume.
The spectrum of digital foul play (from IG models to Only Fans to Ashley Madison)
How to FINALLY break the habit of porn consumption
Bonus #2
How to stop the bleeding in your marriage (it will be uncomfortable, but worth it)
How to address the elephant in the room
The power of making commitments (to yourself AND the marriage)
What if she's got one foot out the door? Learn how to change the trajectory of the marriage.
Bonus 3
Is it possible to cheat if you never have sex with another woman? (Spoiler alert: yes)
It can't be as bad as having a one night stand, though, right? (It can. And often is.)
Learn how to honor the emotional connection and commitments within your home and NEVER be tempted by the allure of another woman's advances.
"When my husband cheated my world fell apart. We had a beautiful marriage, 2 kids, and a healthy sex life. I never saw this coming and it ruined my life. I found Nick through TikTok and recommended my husband to take this course. He did. It's been so helpful to have my husband open up like Nick talks about to move the marriage forward. Not to mention having a support group of other women to rely on when days get hard is so helpful. 4 months after Discovery Day and our marriage is even STRONGER than it was before and this course played a big part in that."
Leslie W.
Atlanta, Georgia
"Nick is the perfect teacher for this material because he's understanding, compassionate, and knowledgable. He knows more about how to heal marriages than any therapist I've ever been to. Marriage After Cheating is the most complete course I've taken on cheating and that's after reading 10+ books, going to counseling, and seeing a couple's therapist. The techniques he teaches to help the wives feel better are worth the price tag alone. At times I thought my marriage was over and it was great to be able to hop in the support group and get help from both Nick & the other students to keep me going through this."
Mike L.
Chicago, Illinois
"Nick saved my marriage. I had my husband take Nick's class because we wanted to find out why he did this. My husband had a full blown affair and he never really fully understood the hurt he caused until Nick explained it to him in a way he could understand it. The defensiveness stopped. The arguing stopped. The avoidance behaviors stopped. Now we are finally able to talk and work through things and it wasn't until Marriage After Cheating that he felt confident enough to help me work through these feelings."
Cherie M.
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
"When my husband cheated my world fell apart. We had a beautiful marriage, 2 kids, and a healthy sex life. I never saw this coming and it ruined my life. I found Nick through TikTok and recommended my husband to take this course. He did. It's been so helpful to have my husband open up like Nick talks about to move the marriage forward. Not to mention having a support group of other women to rely on when days get hard is so helpful. 4 months after Discovery Day and our marriage is even STRONGER than it was before and this course played a big part in that."
Leslie W.
Atlanta, Georgia
"Nick is the perfect teacher for this material because he's understanding, compassionate, and knowledgable. He knows more about how to heal marriages than any therapist I've ever been to. Marriage After Cheating is definitely the most complete course I've taken on cheating and that's after reading 10+ books, going to counseling, and seeing a couple's therapist. The techniques he teaches to help the wives feel better are worth the price tag alone. At times I thought my marriage was over and it was great to be able to hop in the support group and get help from both Nick & the other students to keep me going through this."
Mike L.
Chicago, Illinois
"Nick saved my marriage. I had my husband take Nick's class because we wanted to find out why he did this. He had a full blown affair and he never really fully understood the hurt he caused until Nick explained it to him in a way he could understand it. The defensiveness stopped. The arguing stopped. The avoidance behaviors stopped. Now we are finally able to talk and work through things and it wasn't until he took Marriage After Cheating that he felt confident enough to help me work through these feelings."
Cherie M.
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
*Note: Testimonials are from real people who took the class or whose spouse took the class. We asked for their opinion of the class over email. These were the responses. We cleaned up grammar issues, however the content & context of the testimonials have NOT been altered. Last names have been abbreviated for privacy purposes.
Marriage After Cheating Part 1: The Betrayer
Marriage After Cheating Part 2: The Betrayed
Men's Support Group
Women's Support Group
Bonus #1: Erasing Emotional Cheating
Bonus #2: Overcoming Porn Addiction
Bonus #3: Stop The Separation
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